Bottomline: Posting subliminal messages on social media and captioning it with passive aggressive statements is the beginning of a never ending loop of self-torture. Sometimes it is more prudent to close the book and burn it
Obsession with romance and tragic love stories has been a matter to fawn over for generations since time immemorial. What with all the novels and movies drawing out heart breaking endings for the various love interests involved, it is bound to spark some sort of fascination with a gory end to a relationship. Unfortunately, some may take this interpretation no-wonder crimes of passion are pilling up every day.
To add to this list of love affairs turned bloody, Jamal Nassul Gaddafi was recently stabbed to death by his lover at Arks Hotel. A disagreement that quickly went left field has taken the life of one of the most promising actor, this calls for a quick reanalysis of what we think may be right in a relationship.
With the current comforts and technological advancements of the modern world, finding one’s purpose may be a harder task than anticipated, that is why the unnatural fixation of people not having any love, affection or romance is understandable. How people deal with the grief,depression and disappointment that comes from it, however, thoroughly differs.
Several Instagram posts and subtle disses later, Vera Sidika decides she would profit from her supposed heart break, which she did. Releasing a song that has over a million views on YouTube, she told her ex-lover interestingly exactly what she thought about him and his financial dwarfness. There are various ways to move on,a song to commemorate their short lived stay ‘situationship’ was statement enough Otile Brown will live to remember.
Woe betide you
Let’s call this horrid EX He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named. May be a good tongue wagging will not be enough, sometimes a little sabotage goes a long way in appeasing ones alter ego that would love to watch the world burn. As famously known, tit for tat is a fair game, so you are convinced the pain you feel is so deep that your ancestors felt it, so as to appease them, you decided to burn a few of his shirts. Unfortunately, a few shirts turned to half of his belongings on earth this makes you a suitable candidate for criminal charges that may force you to eat weevil infested beans in some prison for a significant duration, but was it worth it?
Time should heal all wounds, except if you scratch the scabs. Holding grudges is more harmful to you than He-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named. Posting subliminal messages on social media and captioning it with passive aggressive statements is the beginning of a never ending loop of self-torture. Sometimes it is more prudent to close the book and burn it. The psychological effect of keeping contact and constant stalking goes parallel to your wish of finally forgetting about this abominable person.